BELGRADE, Serbia — Aware of the offended and still-unhealed wounds left by NATO’s bombing of Serbia greater than 20 years in the past, Ukraine’s ambassador appeared on Serbian tv after Russia invaded and bombed his nation within the hope of rousing sympathy.

As an alternative of getting time to clarify Ukraine’s distress, nonetheless, the ambassador, Oleksandr Aleksandrovych, needed to sit by way of rants by pro-Russian Serbian commentators, and lengthy movies of Russia’s president, Vladimir V. Putin, denouncing Ukraine as a nest of Nazis. The present, broadcast by the pro-government Blissful TV, lasted three hours, greater than half of which featured Mr. Putin.

Indignant on the on-air ambush, the ambassador complained to the producer concerning the pro-Kremlin propaganda train, however was instructed to not take it personally and that Mr. Putin “is sweet for our rankings.”

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That Russia’s chief, seen by many within the West, together with President Biden, as a conflict prison, serves in Serbia as a lure for viewers is a reminder that the Kremlin nonetheless has admirers in Europe.

Whereas Germany, Poland and a number of other different E.U. nations show solidarity with Ukraine by flying its flag outdoors their Belgrade embassies, a close-by road pays tribute to Mr. Putin. A mural painted on the wall options a picture of the Russian chief alongside the Serbian phrase for “brother.”

A part of Mr. Putin’s attract lies in his picture as a strongman, an interesting mannequin for President Aleksandar Vucic, the more and more authoritarian chief of Serbia, and Prime Minister Viktor Orban, the belligerently intolerant chief of Hungary. Dealing with elections on Sunday, the Serbian and Hungarian leaders additionally look to Russia as a dependable supply of power to maintain their voters completely happy. Opinion polls counsel each will win.

Then there’s historical past, or a minimum of a mythologized model of the previous, that, within the case of Serbia, presents Russia, a fellow Slavic and Orthodox Christian nation, as an unwavering buddy and protector down the centuries.

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However maybe most necessary is Mr. Putin’s position as a lodestar for nations that, it doesn’t matter what their previous crimes, see themselves as victims, not aggressors, and whose politics and psyche revolve round cults of victimhood nurtured by resentment and grievance towards the West.

Arijan Djan, a Belgrade-based psychotherapist, mentioned she had been shocked by the shortage of empathy amongst many Serbs for the struggling of Ukrainians however realized that many nonetheless bore the scars of previous trauma that obliterated all feeling for the ache of others.

“People that suffer traumas that they’ve by no means handled can’t really feel empathy,” she mentioned. Societies, like trauma-scarred people, she added, “simply repeat the identical tales of their very own struggling again and again,” a damaged report that “deletes all accountability” for what they’ve accomplished to others.

A way of victimhood runs deep in Serbia, viewing crimes dedicated by ethnic kin through the Balkan wars of the Nineties as a defensive response to struggling visited on Serbs, simply as Mr. Putin presents his bloody invasion of Ukraine as a righteous effort to guard persecuted ethnic Russians who belong in “Russky mir,” or the “Russian world.”

“Putin’s ‘Russian world’ is an actual copy of what our nationalists name Larger Serbia,” mentioned Bosko Jaksic, a pro-Western newspaper columnist. Each, he added, feed on partly remembered histories of previous injustice and erased recollections of their very own sins.

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The sufferer narrative is so sturdy amongst some in Serbia that Informer, a raucous tabloid newspaper that usually displays the considering of Mr. Vucic, the president, final month reported Russia’s preparations for its invasion of Ukraine with a front-page headline recasting Moscow as a innocent harmless: “Ukraine assaults Russia!” it screamed.

The Serbian authorities, cautious of burning bridges with the West however delicate to widespread public sympathy for Russia as a fellow wronged sufferer, has since pushed information retailers to take a extra impartial stand, mentioned Zoran Gavrilovic, the manager director of Birodi, an unbiased media monitoring group in Serbia. Russia is sort of by no means criticized, he mentioned, however abuse of Ukraine has subsided.

Mr. Aleksandrovych, the Ukrainian ambassador to Serbia, mentioned he welcomed the change of tone however that he nonetheless struggled to get Serbians to look past their very own struggling at NATO’s palms in 1999. “Due to the trauma of what occurred 23 years in the past, no matter dangerous occurs on the earth is seen as America’s fault,” he mentioned.

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Hungary, allied with the shedding facet in two world wars, additionally nurses an oversize sufferer advanced, rooted within the lack of massive chunks of its territory. Mr. Orban has stoked these resentments eagerly for years, usually siding with Russia over Ukraine, which controls a slice of former Hungarian land and has featured prominently in his efforts to current himself as a defender of ethnic Hungarians residing past the nation’s border.

In neighboring Serbia, Mr. Vucic, anxious to keep away from alienating pro-Russia voters forward of Sunday’s election, has balked at imposing sanctions on Russia and at suspending flights between Belgrade and Moscow. However Serbia did vote in favor of a United Nations decision on March 2 condemning Russia’s invasion.

That was sufficient to win reward for Mr. Vucic from Victoria Nuland, an American below secretary of state, who thanked Serbia “for its help for Ukraine.” However it didn’t cease Russia’s international minister, Sergey V. Lavrov, from on Monday suggesting Belgrade as a superb place to carry peace talks between Moscow and Kyiv.

Serbs who need their nation to affix the European Union and cease dancing between East and West accuse Mr. Vucic of enjoying a double sport. “There are tectonic modifications going down and we try to sleep by way of them,” mentioned Vladimir Medjak, vice chairman of European Motion Serbia, a lobbying group pushing for E.U. membership.

Serbia, he mentioned, is “not a lot pro-Russian as NATO-hating.”

As an alternative of transferring towards Europe, he added: “We’re nonetheless speaking about what occurred within the Nineties. It’s an countless loop. We’re caught speaking about the identical issues again and again.”

Greater than twenty years after the combating ended within the Balkans, many Serbs nonetheless dismiss conflict crimes in Srebrenica, the place Serb troopers massacred greater than 8,000 Bosnian Muslims in 1995, and in Kosovo, the place brutal Serb persecution of ethnic Albanians prompted NATO’s 1999 bombing marketing campaign, because the flip facet of struggling inflicted on ethnic Serbs.

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Requested whether or not she authorised of the conflict unleashed by Mr. Putin as she walked by the Belgrade mural in his honor, Milica Zuric, a 25-year-old financial institution employee, responded by asking why Western media centered on Ukraine’s agonies when “you had no real interest in Serbian ache” brought on by NATO warplanes in 1999. “No person cried over what occurred to us,” she mentioned.

With a lot of the world’s media centered final week on Russia’s destruction of Mariupol, the Ukrainian port metropolis, Serbia commemorated the beginning of NATO’s bombing marketing campaign. Entrance pages have been plastered with pictures of buildings and railway traces destroyed by NATO. “We can’t overlook. We all know what it’s to reside below bombardment,” learn the headline of Kurir, a pro-government tabloid.

A small group of protesters gathered outdoors the US Embassy after which joined a a lot larger pro-Russia demonstration, with protesters waving Russian flags and banners adorned with the letter Z, which has develop into an emblem of help for Russia’s invasion.

Damnjan Knezevic, the chief of Folks’s Patrol, a far-right group that organized the gathering, mentioned he felt solidarity with Russia as a result of it had been portrayed as an aggressor within the West, simply as Serbia was within the Nineties, when, he believes, “Serbia was in actuality the most important sufferer.” Russia had an obligation to guard ethnic kin in Ukraine simply as Serbia did in Bosnia, Croatia and Kosovo, Mr. Knezevic mentioned.

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Bosko Obradovic, the chief of Dveri, a conservative social gathering, mentioned he lamented civilian casualties in Ukraine however insisted that “NATO has an enormous accountability” for his or her destiny.

Mr. Obradovic on Sunday gathered cheering supporters for a pre-election rally in a Belgrade film home. A stall outdoors the doorway bought Serbian paratrooper berets, army caps and large Russian flags.

Predrag Markovic, director for the Institute of Up to date Historical past in Belgrade, mentioned that historical past served because the bedrock of nationhood however, distorted by political agendas, “at all times presents the fallacious classes.” The one case of a rustic in Europe absolutely acknowledging its previous crimes, he added, was Germany after World Battle II.

“Everybody else has a narrative of victimization.” Mr. Markovic mentioned.

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