Paris Hilton is displaying affection for geeks, a different type of guy. The 44-year-old businesswoman spoke with presenters Phoebe Gates and Sophia Kianni on a recent edition of The Burnouts podcast about relationships, warning signs, and what makes a person worth dating.

Hilton stated that you should look for small-town males who are polite and kind and who don’t use dating apps or other strange stuff.

“Being one of those men that wants to go out all the time would make it really difficult to trust them. I believe that the best people are geeks.

Gates, 22, and Kianni, 23, immediately endorsed her advise, agreeing with Hilton’s viewpoint.

When it comes to selecting someone who gives stability and kindness, Hilton, who wed businessman Carter Reum in 2021, is an expert. Before their romance began in 2019, the two had been pals for years.

In 2020, Hilton told PEOPLE, “We just had this incredible chemistry when [Reum’s sister Halle Hammond] invited us to Thanksgiving.” Since our first date, we haven’t gone a night without each other. It’s quite remarkable.

Hilton and Reum, both of whom are now 44, have two small children: a daughter named London, age 1, and a son named Phoenix, age 2.

Kianni also questioned Hilton on how she balances a hard job and personal life in the same June 26 podcast episode. Hilton was candid about the difficulties and the type of assistance that has been crucial.

“You know, it’s difficult to be with a successful woman, and some men get really insecure,” she remarked.

“And [my spouse] is the complete opposite of everyone else I’ve dated, which is a wonderful feeling just to feel so uplifted and supported, or [that] anything is possible.”

From her dating tips to her thoughts on establishing a genuine relationship, Hilton’s remarks demonstrated the need of kindness, support, and geeky charm.